Hi George,
There isn't much in that last post that I could disagree with but just a couple of points. Your "come dine with me" was a great idea but unfortunately, it was always going to be difficult to get off the ground, for a number of reasons really. It's a brave man or woman that would feed 5 or 6 strangers, in their own home, with the pressure of making sure that the dishes were upto scratch. Then there are some that are just uncomfortable with having strangers in their home, nevermind cooking for them.
Then there is the practicality of it. How do we get to each others houses? I know you suggested the participants be local to each other but even so, 30 miles or so, is still a long distance to travel for a curry. In principle George, it was a great idea, and you suggested it for all the right reasons but it was always going to be hard to execute in my opinion.
What do we have to show for about 7 years of R&D? No as much as some people might have hoped.
I guess it's a question of what people are actually looking for George. Spiceyokooko, obviously loves the "understanding" of the art, and goes into things in fine detail, others are novice cooks (in any cuisine) and are amazed at how good the food is that they are producing. These are the guy's IMO that frequent the forum but do not contribute, which is fine BTW.
Then there are those like me, who has been trying to crack curries for years but couldn't get the info that I needed, I find this forum and "eureka" I'm in my element, only to find that it has become a drug and the more you do (in our case the more we cook) it's not enough.
Of course, there are those that think that they will save themselves a few quid, oh how wrong they are :

So, have we failed or have our own expectation got higher? I would think the latter.
Ray,
p.s, I have just made a version of c2g garlic chicken. I used chewys base, my spice blend, jarred ginger and garlic past, rajah tandoori masala. I didn't use his onion sauce, I used a portion of my onion paste instead (Nothing like the c2g garlic chicken really is it?

) I've got to say, it was absolutely marvellous, really tasty.
So, from someone else's recipe, I now have ideas to create my own version of it, surely, that's what it's all about?
