The thing is Chris (as I see it :

) you seem to be stringing people along, a little bit here a little bit there. This is a free forum with free recipes that people give free of charge for one and all to try with just a thank you as payment, yet you are promoting a book here to sell, not as you say for the members but for "you" as "you" will profit from the book. This in itself will get peoples backs up (rightly or wrongly I am not judging you). The more vociferous (as proved over the years) shout the loudest and longest yet contribute little or nothing.
I came here and took what I wanted, I tried to give input, but I gave up and now I think why bother :

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The best thing you can do is ignore them.
If you want to sell a book and promote it here then go ahead, it isn't against any rules and others have done it. I guarantee the next hopeful after you who comes along with an ebook to promote will get the same deal.