Haldi,have to agree with you

Got to say though I / We prefer our Curry's quite spicy which is how I make them but when we have a t/a they seem very bland and just hot !
A few weeks ago I was in our local t/a kitchen watching them make our Curry's ( madras ) and was very surprised to see they used no extra spice in the Curry other than what was in the Gravy

when I asked the Chef he said most customers do not like spicy Curry

so I asked if I could make my Curry and he agreed !
Although I made my Curry basically the same as the Chef I added about 1/2 tbs of spice mix and this brought my Curry up to my spice level and made it much tastier than my Wife's bland Curry ;D
So it could be that your own Curry's have improved so much that you are now making better/tastier Curry's than the takeaways