sorry all - initial list was simplistic - thinking there would be little interest.
1) flame on full, add oil, g/g - quick fry until aroma. stirring all the time
2) fry pre cooked chopped onion or un cooked sliced onion /green pepper. the pre cooked until the oil starts to release and the un cooked until they start to brown at the edges and the onion slices break up. stir all the time.
3) pan off heat, add all in 1 go: puree, spices, chilli, salt, bunjarra, 1 chef spoon (4 tbsp) base - stir till mixed.
4) back on heat fry till aroma - judging this is the trickiest part (no more than say 60 secs for me - sort of as soon as the liquid has dried around the pan rim). no stir generally.
5) add pre cooked meat, stir and fry until pan comes back to heat
6) add base 1 off chef spoon at a time waiting till pan comes back to heat. occasional stir from now on - side to side and around the rim (base and side of pan). add pastes and such like as soon as there is enough liquid ie coconut flour, almond powder etc
7) when almost done add final ingredients: fresh coriander, cream, lemon dressing etc
8 ) cook till surface craters or oil rises.
clearly everyone will have their own personal preferences. it would be good to understand what the main differences are so that we can all try them out and improve.
although i list 8 steps i think of it and cook it as if it were 3 stages:
A) oil - steps 1 & 2
B) spice - steps 3 & 4
C) base - steps 5 to 8