Thanks for the replies folks, all very helpful.
Ok this is how I see it and remember I'm going through a tough spell as regards this so all can be ignored. ;D
I can make a sauce taste like Cumin. I can make a sauce taste like cumin with cloves, like Garlic, Ginger, Methi and so on etc.
What I cannot do is match the restaurant at all. I come pretty darned close to one place with my Vindy but they are preparing it in a more home-style way. The others? Not on your nelly, I'm a million miles away from achieving this and they are all similar.
In my case there is a spice/combination of spice seriously missing in all dishes. Its not that they haven't cooked through its that its just not there.
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Santa on your Pepper additions) You know I love pepper and have wondered about this for some time. Thanks for that.
In essence this is about my spice mix. It's nowhere near what I'm being served and I've tried about 20 different variations too. My thinking is that they are adding a spice not usually added to meat dishes or they do something to the spice prior to grinding?
On the Tomato paste thing.... I've asked several people if they ever tasted the (RED) tomato paste which we are told is JUST tomato paste. I have different info from an owner here who confirmed it is not just tomato paste.
Ajwain seems to knock at me head a lot these days for example. Horrible in Butter chicken, delicious with Lamb though its supposed to be for veggie dishes right?
I guess I'm clutching at straws at the moment but I do think a damned good natter with people about this might get my cooking juices going again, I just love cooking but I like it simple and to know what I'm doing rather than testing.
Thanks again folks. Good thread.
