thanks!
ok ill tell you what i kept in. obviously the necessary ingredients, and the optional stuff i went for dessicated coconut, and evaporated milk, i also added the methi to the tandoori spiced mix (stage 1 i think it was). I left out the other stuff as i wasnt sure about it, and i left out condensed milk and dont think id put that back in again anyhow, as it gives me the impression of being too sweet. lol i know its not a particularly healthy dish, but im not sure about the condensed milk. Any ideas then ? maybe i should try it again with more of the other ingredients, but just looking through them im not getting a feeling of 'oh shit yeah!! thats what the missing ingredient could be!!'.. my locals ctm i think is quite unique and although has most of the usual ctm ingredients, i feel theres a thing or two that im totally missing out. nice one that i made yesterday though.